Virginia Parenting Plan Template (Free 2026)
What is a Parenting Plan in Virginia?
A parenting plan in Virginia is a written agreement that outlines how parents will share custody and make decisions about their children after separation or divorce. Virginia courts require (or strongly encourage) a parenting plan as part of any custody proceeding.
The plan typically covers physical custody schedules, legal decision-making authority, holiday and vacation arrangements, transportation logistics, and communication protocols. Virginia uses the income shares model for calculating child support, which is directly influenced by the parenting time allocation in your plan.
While parents can draft their own parenting plans, courts in Virginia must approve any agreement to ensure it serves the best interests of the children. Having a well-structured, detailed plan increases the likelihood of court approval and reduces future disputes.
Virginia Custody Guidelines
Virginia courts commonly award the non-custodial parent every other weekend and one weeknight dinner visit.
Virginia uses the income shares for child support calculations. Uses gross income, shared custody for 90+ days
Common deviation factors in Virginia:
- Shared custody (90+ days)
- Imputed income
- Tax consequences
Common Schedules in Virginia
Alternating Weeks (50/50)
Each parent has the child for one full week. Best for cooperative parents living nearby.
2-2-3 Rotation (50/50)
Mon-Tue with Parent A, Wed-Thu with Parent B, alternating weekends. Minimizes time away from either parent.
3-4-4-3 Rotation (50/50)
Three days with one parent, four with the other, then swap. Good balance for school-age children.
Every Other Weekend (~14%)
Primary parent has weekdays, other parent gets every other Friday-Sunday. Common starting point.
60/40 Split
Primary parent has 4-5 days/week with alternating weekends for the other parent.
Required Elements in a Virginia Parenting Plan
- Physical custody schedule (regular, weekday, and weekend)
- Holiday and vacation schedule with specific dates
- Legal decision-making authority (education, healthcare, religion)
- Transportation and exchange arrangements
- Communication schedule between the child and non-custodial parent
- Right of first refusal provisions
- Procedures for resolving disputes
- Provisions for relocation
- How to modify the plan in the future
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This template is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Consult a Virginia family law attorney.