How to Request a Child Support Modification
Step-by-step guide to requesting a change in your child support order when circumstances change.
How to Request a Child Support Modification
Child support orders are not set in stone. When significant changes occur in either parent's life, you may be entitled to request a modification. This guide walks you through the process.
When Can You Request a Modification?
Most states allow modifications when there's a substantial change in circumstances. Common qualifying changes include:
Income Changes
- Job loss or significant reduction in income (typically 15-25% or more)
- Significant increase in either parent's income
- Disability affecting earning capacity
- Retirement
Custody Changes
- Change in primary custody
- Significant change in parenting time
- Child moving in with the other parent
Child's Needs
- New medical expenses or health conditions
- Special educational needs
- Child reaching certain age milestones
Other Changes
- New children in either household
- Changes in childcare costs
- Changes in health insurance availability
Step-by-Step Process
Step 1: Document the Change
Before filing, gather evidence of the change in circumstances:
- Income changes: Pay stubs, termination letter, tax returns, unemployment documents
- Medical changes: Doctor's notes, bills, insurance statements
- Custody changes: Calendars, communication records, school records
Step 2: Calculate the Potential New Amount
Use our Child Support Calculator to estimate what the new support amount might be. Most states require a certain percentage change (often 15-20%) for a modification to be granted.
Step 3: Try to Agree First
If possible, discuss the modification with the other parent. An agreed modification:
- Is faster to process
- Costs less in legal fees
- Is more likely to be approved
- Creates less conflict
Step 4: File the Motion
If you can't agree, you'll need to file a formal motion with the court:
- Get the forms: Contact your local family court or visit their website
- Complete the motion: Include all relevant details and documentation
- File with the court: Pay the filing fee (fee waivers available for low income)
- Serve the other parent: They must receive official notice
Step 5: Attend the Hearing
At the hearing:
- Bring all documentation
- Be prepared to explain the changes
- Answer questions honestly
- Dress appropriately for court
Timeline
The modification process typically takes:
- With agreement: 2-6 weeks
- Without agreement: 2-6 months
- If contested: 6-12 months or longer
Important Tips
- Keep paying the current amount until the court orders a change
- Document everything related to the change
- Meet all deadlines for filing and responding
- Consider mediation if you can't agree
- Consult an attorney for complex cases
State-Specific Rules
Each state has different rules for modifications. Common variations include:
- Waiting periods: Some states require waiting 2-3 years between modifications
- Threshold amounts: The minimum change required (15-25% is common)
- Retroactivity: Whether changes apply from the filing date or hearing date
Check your state's specific guidelines for details.
Need Help?
- Use our Modification Calculator to see if you might qualify
- Review state-specific information for your location
- Consider consulting with a family law attorney in your area